Gold Dust

What a rarity it is, a material thing that is timeless. A piece that gets better with age, a piece that tells a story, a piece that can be passed on from generation to generation. Such a thing that increases in value in a measurement more substantial than money….in what it means to you, where it came from, the story behind it and the people it remind you of.

The charm of the heirloom is its ability to become a vehicle for a story. It’s a cherished memento that reminds you of a person and what you shared together. These earrings and the necklace is a reminder of my roots. Aata procured this beautiful traditional necklace while escorting a Scottish official who was writing a book on the Sonowal Kacharis. The head of this special tribe gifted him these golden earrings decorated with vibrant red gemstone, ruby( mina ) made by craftsmen from Jorhat. They became great friends. Aata gave the necklace to my great grandmother and the earrings adorned the ears of my beautiful Aai; she thereafter gifted them to my mother on her wedding.

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For Ma it was not just a piece of gold, it was a symbol of love and care, affection and prestige, of friendship and bonding. She would wrap them in a thin red piece of paper and keep them in layers of cotton inside her jewelry box. That’s the exact same way Aai kept them she would say. That’s how Aai had taught her to keep it. She would show me once in a while and I remembered how every time I tried to put it back in the box she would say, ”No, no, no! Not like this Majoni and would place the sunflowers back into the folds of its soft bed in an almost ritualistic way. Nodding her head back and forth she would whisper, ” she wouldn’t have done it like this. She would have…..”.

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There is a certain imperfection to all things handmade, which becomes mutually exclusive with the preciousness of that item. Someone has worked on them with their own hands, delicately carving and melting the gold, laying in the jewels and polishing the surface.

The ornaments were handed over to me on my wedding. It was the the first function called ‘Jurun’, I remember Aai and Ma gracing me with the exquisite pieces of gold that holds love, history, dollops of emotion and a story to carry forward. It was a responsibility being handed over to me. I could feel the weight.

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‘Jurun’ in our Assamese community means the formal engagement when the groom’s family gives gifts to the bride. In the picture my beautiful Aai looks at me with so much love in her eyes; her favorite granddaughter was bedecked with exquisite jewelry  and gifts by the groom’s family. Her eyes would get moist at times. She would hold my hands and touch my cheeks occasionally; fix the necklace she gave and murmur, ‘don’t forget our tiny little gift majoni.’

Every time I wear these my heart is filled with an aching warmth. I love that for even the shortest of time I share something with these incredibly wonderful women. It kisses my skin and leaves me with nostalgia; the fact that I share the objects that connect us all to our roots and our soil.

“I think it is all a matter of love; the more you love a memory the stronger and stranger it becomes”
Vladimir Nabokov

 

Aata: Grandfather

Aai: Grandmother

Ma: Mother

Sonowal Kachari: One of the indigenious ethnic group of the North East part of India

Majoni: My nickname

Jurun: Ceremony where the groom’s family brings gifts for the bride

 

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2 thoughts on “Gold Dust

  1. You have encapsulated everything that is beautiful, meaningful and precious about gold. As investors we know that we can count on it anytime for liquid value and assets but your perspective contains so much history, richness and beauty it’s truly moving.

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